The power of Words

 

The power of Words

Do words really have a force?? Words can heal and words can kill. We should take the time to notice the words we use when interacting with others.

The way we talk to others intensely influences their emotional states, their thoughts, and their behavioral choices. Empathetic and non-judgmental words have the power to calm, soothe, and re-ground us. They help us to feel securely connected to other people. On the other hand unkind, abusive and harsh words; have an adverse effect; they bring about fears, anxiety, and a sense of isolation in people. Ask yourself, “What impact will my words have on the person?” “Is what I am about to say to my friend, my partner, my co-worker, my student, my parents, or even a stranger, kind or unkind?”

Words that criticized taunted accused, judged, or blamed linger for long in our minds, for years after they are spoken. The impact of words can be either deadly or positive.
Tender words of encouragement give us hope, enhance self-esteem, and help us for ongoing personal and professional growth.

These days a lot of communication happens over texts and e-mails, always remember, since the tone of voice, emotion, body language, and facial expressions are all missing in the above form, we should be all the more selective about our choice of words.

Make the word choice carefully, understand how you want the communication impact to be: safe, trustworthy, and loving or critical, judgmental and traumatic.